Thursday, May 23, 2013

Who Is Goldy Locks?

This video piece I am posting was never intended to be seen by anyone but my agents, agency & producers in Los Angeles. But after last night, and how extremely pissed off I got, I’m posting it. So watch it, all of it, before people on here waste my time with the most stupid questions I’ve ever received.

I wasn’t trying to act “popular” last night. And? I actually DO love when the people who know me and my peers RAZ me & heckle me on my posts. But that’s just it. You know me, or I’ve met you, know of you. I don’t need complete a hole strangers finding me on my personal media pages & criticizing me, beating me up… and asking the most STUPID things I’ve ever heard. Again, people who know me? Bring it! I love your banter, opinions and comments. The rest of the people who find me can kiss my arse…

If you have to ask me, “Do you sing?” “Are you in wrestling?” “blab la bla…Who are you? Why are you even ON my page!

I am posting this video. As I said, it’s not meant for anyone else than my industry peeps getting me work. I was asked to “describe myself and what I do…” lol… Good Lord… My good friend and publicist told me, “You’re like a Big Juicy Cocktail!” So just make a big DRINK! Dress like a cocktail waitress & tell em what you do!”

Well, my “costume” is a little chesty! So save your comments on that, and look at the content. What REALLY tanned my hide last night, is I have young people who find me late at night. Some of you don’t realize that I speak in schools during the day. I talk to sometimes 15,000 children a week. You probably didn’t know that.


Do I show up with my guy liner & show club attire on? Nope. A simple D.A.R.E. T-shirt & a ponytail. No make up. Just a REAL message. You see, while I dwell in bars, pool halls and some real dives, I’ve never done a drug or really drank in my life. You can do your thing, and I would never judge you, but some of these kids need to know that it’s not just OK to say “No” in Jr. High, but in life.

“No” to chemical substances, “No” to abusive relationships and friendships, “No” to situations that leave them feeling compromised and just “No” to having to put up with BS that life sometimes brings your way. You can always say “No.” Hell, I do it every day…

There are “code words” that are decided when I speak at children’s chemical & adult chemical dependency centers. That’s right. Words that when put in the subject line alert me or the 4 people who help me answer emails, that something is wrong and it needs to be addressed.  That I need to help get them to a professional, teacher or counselor to make sure they keep a clear head about themselves.

Last night I had several young people I was talking to. They shouldn’t even be on my personal and very “adult” FB page. It’s for adults to carry on as we do, without censorship or hesitation, to vent, rant & strictly “tell it like it is.” If a child is to find me there though, then they are FIRST AND FORMOST priority. And they get ALL of my attention. Some of you absolutely disgusted me last night when I kindly & politely said, “yes, I’m online, but busy with something important.”

It was all about you though.  And you need to check yourself. Don’t bother me again when I’m trying to help someone. Especially a young adult. I’m no role model, so save calling me one. I don’t pretend to be something I’m not. I’m a Pro Wrestling personality, who rocks stages at night & happens to talk to kids during the day. I swear like a sailor but lead a completely healthy lifestyle and eat cleaner than most you’ve ever seen. Role model? Lol… not really. “Real model?” Yup. But I’m a walking contradiction and I like it that way. Why? Because I catch the flies that need the “talking” to. No “perfect Sally Made sweet politically correct speaking motivational speaker ever really gets through to the ones that need it. J. You need to SPEAK the language of these kids who are headed the wrong way. And let them know how to choose something better.

I’m posting this video now. So next time you see me online, please reach out. But with intelligence, confidence and valor. If I say I’m busy talking to a kid or someone who needs my damn attention, then shut up. Don’t blow me up asking what color panties I’m wearing.  Cause if you do? I’ll just make time in the morning to find your wife or girlfriend online and copy and paste your thread. And that will be MY entertainment. Rockers need to smile too.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F9mGxj4evuc

How is it you say it in the South? J Oh, yes, have a blessed day.

To the people who took the time read this, support me, the band, my projects, understand my sarcasm and humor, honestly, God bless you. I love and adore you, and you know that’s legit.


Peace & have a wonderful day. Goldy

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3 comments:

  1. Goldy has I see some of your pictures, I have to remember your in show bizz. I know what a wonderful LADY you are. I remember the story you told us about the asses in Japan,now they know you are more than just a blonde. You have a big heart,and a helping hand,I thank you for all the kids you help.What you have given Melissa over the years in friendship means a lot to her and me. I love your sing and like how each day you find joy no matter what is out there. God Bless

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    1. A very kind post. Thank you. I remember you bringing your child to many shows and events in Chanhassen MN. Anytime we had something going, you brought your daughter. That was 13 years ago. She has not missed a Christmas or my birthday in sending an actual card or gift. I can't even say that about good friends or past dates along the way. But what I can say is she obviously has had outstanding parenting.

      You are a role model for how to raise a child in today's world and do it to perfection. What an honor to have come to her school, water park, event... all the places I saw here at. Thank you for always bringing her and supporting the things a young adult would find fun and exciting. I am blessed to know you both.

      Peace be with you and God bless you as well. Goldy

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  2. Goldy you are one of the most awesome and inspirational people I have ever had the pleasure to meet! I don't know you on a deep personal level, but I have rocked out to many of your shows at PHT and always say hey to you and your band mates.

    Thank you SO much for posting this video so that everyone knows who you really are!!! You have been a HUGE inspiration in my life (especially when I listen to "Today I won't be afraid"). Thank you so much for being who you are and inspiring people like me! I know this is going to sound sooooo cheesy, but you really do make me want to be a better woman!

    Thanks for the inspiration, love and overall awesomeness that you give away!
    Much love... Katy Ritter

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