I had a woman come up to me
at the show in GA. She was beautiful. I’ve seen her before. She’s always the
life of the party and the star of the room. She has dance moves that would
light even a soggy pile of kindle on fire. Her smile lights up that strand of tangled
Christmas tree lights you through out because you couldn’t find the burnt out
bulb. I always love seeing her, but this time even more.
She shared with me why she’s
always so happy. “I’ve been married 30 years and the SEX is amazing still!
Always has been and still is!” she proclaimed. I was so happy to hear for once,
finally, a relationship where people were still in lust. “He wanted some
tonight before I left but I told him I needed to go see Goldy lockS and didn’t
want to be late!” Honored was I…
“We do our own thing. He’s
quiet, I’m not! He likes to stay in, I love to go out! But I always invite
him…” You could tell there was mutual respect, trust and love in this union.
And I was digging it. It really does exist. I see the worst and the best of it
late night in the clubs… but true love is out there. And I celebrate that.
I have another friend. I work
with her. This is the only friend I allow to just hang up the phone on me. Her
husband is in music, has crazy hours, so when he calls, I get dropped like a
hot potato and all I can do is smile.
She can’t wait to tell me
when they escape to “do it” and how excited she is when she finds out that tour
bus is rolling in. I watch her social media posts and I’m also friends with her
husband so I see how much he loves his family and adores his wife. And again,
I’m digging it.
I knew he was coming home
today. And I called just to say have fun & enjoy, and my friend was busy
putting the finishing touches on her make up. After 2 kids and 8 years of
marriage, she still wants to look her best, attractive and HOT for her man. I
listen to these blue prints and store them as a mental manual for when I may
need them. J
I once dated a rock star with
famous parents and grand parents. To keep that anonymity I won’t say whom, but
I will give you the gist of something he once told me. His grand parents were
on TV. And they lived that “fairy tail” life, or so it appeared. I asked if it
was true or a sham and he told me, “I’ve never seen two people more in love…”
And he also shared a quote his very famous grandmother told him. She would
listen to him complain about his unhappy & unhealthy relationships and
offered this bit of epic advice…
“If there’s too much fighten
and not enough f@#ckin, then it’s time to go!”
Lol… from a grandma never the
less. Words I live by today.
The fairy tails do exist. And
just because you’re in a long term relationship, doesn’t mean it can’t stay
hot. Look at your partner today, and realize, remember why you were attracted
to them in the first place. Savor it. Think about it. And do something to
really let them know you still think they’re hot. And when no one’s lookin? Or
even if they are, give them a good old fashioned ass grab. I promise it will
make for a good night. J
- Goldy Knows
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